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How can we have better meetings?

Make meetings work with the EASE Framework. Match purpose to format, set clear roles, and close with actions for faster decisions and better results.

TL;DR

"I have made this longer than usual because I have not had time to make it shorter." Blaise Pascal and others, may apply to meetings. Most meetings fail because the purpose, format, and roles do not match. Meet with EASE. Explore the outcome and choose a specific format. Align roles, prep, and timeboxes. Support the room with clear norms, real-time logs, and inclusive facilitation. Empower people by closing with owners, deadlines, and a ten-line recap. Borrow a simple “should we meet” decision tree to avoid needless gatherings, and use a Meeting Fit Matrix to keep formats honest. Over time, this becomes a habit that speeds decisions and lightens calendars.

Executive Summary

Most “bad meetings” are just mismatches between purpose, format, and roles. Fix those three with EASE and meetings become short, useful, and repeatable.

Playbook

Definition: Meeting Fit is the alignment between the meeting’s purpose, chosen format, and participant roles.

Data point: A simple decision tree to determine whether to meet, and what kind, materially improves outcomes; see Shane Snow’s flowchart on choosing if and how to meet. report.snow.academy

Meet with EASE: choosing the right meeting before you send the invite

“Mastering the Art of Leading with EASE” delves deep into the strategies and mindset shifts you need to realign your goals and reclaim your path, with EASE. Today we apply that discipline to the everyday lever that shapes culture more than policy does, meetings.

Many teams treat every gathering as the same thing with different calendar titles. That is why the hour fills, the agenda drifts, dominant voices steer, and nothing moves. Meetings work when the purpose, format, and roles match. They stall when they do not. Working together is practice that must be nurtured and meetings are one of those areas to do this.

Meetings are not the practical alternative to work, or are they?

“Meet with EASE” is a simple operating picture you can teach in an afternoon and apply forever.

Explore: name the output, then pick the format

Write the desired output in one sentence starting with a verb, the desired action... The purpose of this meeting is to inform/ to decide between/ to discuss/ to understand. Then choose the format that serves it. Borrowing the spirit of Shane Snow’s “should we meet” decision flow, and Helen Chapman's 'The Meeting Book', only call a meeting when collaboration beats asynchronous work or brings it all together, and pick a specific type with purpose. The purpose of this meeting is...

Common formats and when to use them

  • Broadcast briefing, minimal Q&A, when information must land consistently. This meeting is most likely the output and result of other meetings or planning, described below. Decisions have been made and consensus will largely exist with minimal and well understood uncertainty or concerns... to inform.
  • Decision forum, pre-read required, options compared against criteria, typically one decider. This is about strategic choices and decision making when other valid options exist... to decide.
  • Design workshop, co-creation with sketches or canvases, divergent then convergent. There may be a high degree of uncertainty, novel decisions to be considered and real risk. This can be important to build shared consensus effectively... to discuss
  • Issue review, risk or incident learning, blameless and timeboxed... to review
  • Retrospective, inspect and adapt on a sprint or event. Perhaps debrief or document learnings, establish options for improvement... to learn.
  • Stand-up, coordination only, under fifteen minutes. Often used to start a shift of work with rolling accountability and may be useful to enlist help. Try this, "Say what you said you would do. Say what you did. Say what you are going to do." Trust builds... to account.
  • 1:1, relationship, feedback, growth. Important to work on listening skills with each other. Ask open ended questions and avoid yes/no answers. Use a framework to unlock discourse... to relate.
  • Social, bonds and morale, no hidden decision inside it. Pay attention: Understand who attends, who doesn't and why not. Seek to understand and do not be judgmental. Try different formats and ensure a variety of options. Consider alternatives to the usual... to bond.

If no format obviously fits, you may not need a meeting, yet.

Align: Roles, Preparation, and Timeboxes

People cannot play a part they do not know they have. Clarify who is: Chair, Facilitator, Scribe, Decider, and Contributors. You might use this to build your RACI Matrix. Send pre-reads or questions 24 hours before. For decision forums, ask for written opinions in advance to reduce groupthink and airtime bias.

Helen Chapman’s The Meeting Book is a practical guide for clarity, habit, and craft. Her emphasis on simple twists that make meetings deliver every time aligns with this step, especially the insistence on preparation and structure.

Timebox template

  • Open and purpose, two minutes.
  • Round of facts or updates, five to ten minutes.
  • Options or ideas, ten to twenty minutes.
  • Criteria check and decision, five to ten minutes.
  • Actions and owners, three minutes.
  • Close and confirm, one minute.

Support: make it safe and efficient in the room

Psychological safety is not softness, it is the condition for candour and speed. Set norms: curiosity first, one person at a time, disagree well, note unknowns. Park tangents. Use prompts that invite quieter voices. Capture assumptions explicitly.

Facilitation checklist

  • Display the agenda and clock on screen or wall.
  • Use a visible decision log and action list.
  • Invite two named counter-arguments before finalising a choice.
  • Call out domination patterns kindly and redirect to process.

Empower: close the loop and move

A meeting that ends without clear movement teaches learned helplessness. Finish with: what, who, when, and how we will know it is done. Send a ten-line recap: purpose, key facts, decisions, risks, actions. Archive to a shared place.

Ten-line recap skeleton

  1. Purpose
  2. Output
  3. Decision 1
  4. Decision 2
  5. Assumptions
  6. Risks or dependencies
  7. Action 1, owner, date
  8. Action 2, owner, date
  9. Next review
  10. Reference links

A Short, Teachable Ritual

  • Subject line: [Format] – Output – Date – Time in mins
  • First line of invite: output/purpose in one sentence.
  • Agenda as timeboxes.
  • Roles named at the top.
  • Pre-reads attached, with two guiding questions.
  • Recap sent within one hour, filed to the team’s knowledge space. Do not forget to allow time for this to be done too.

Do this for a month and you will feel the culture shift.

“He will win who knows how to handle both superior and inferior forces.” — Sun Tzu, The Art of War
In meetings, “superior force” is clarity. “Inferior force” is confusion. We choose which one runs the room.

What founders and leaders at every level ask next

How do I reduce my meeting load without missing context?
Use broadcast briefings for status, reserve decisions for defined forums, and insist on written recaps that anyone can scan in two minutes.

What if people arrive unprepared?
Provide a one page summary of the preparation and allow time to read in the meeting, if needed. By moving preparation into the invite with two named questions, you can pause the agenda item if pre-reads are not done and let people catch up. People learn quickly when the meeting does not do their homework.

How do I stop dominant voices?
The HIPPO (Highest Paid Person's Opinion, in the military Generals are reminded they are always the General) is often the dominant voice, it may be you. Adopt round-robin first takes, ask for written inputs before discussion, and a visible turn list.  Invite two valid counter-arguments (strategic choices) before you decide, to avoid binary decision making. Nurture your loyal dissent, it is your great ally because the competition is not going to care. Consider anonymous dissent cards and get each other to advocate for the dissent. Keep dissent in mind when pivots are rquired.

We are hybrid and remote. Does this still work?
Yes. Require cameras for small decision forums, document on screen, and rotate facilitators and scribes to share load. Consider the use of AI scribes.

How do I measure improvement?
Track decisions per hour, per meeting, per person present, action completion rates, and the number of meetings converted to asynchronous activity. Review monthly. Feel the tempo shift.

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